Money Mindsets, How’s Yours?

 Do you see light at the end of the tunnel or the further you go; it seems like the longer the tunnel gets?

Do you see money as a tool to help you achieve goals or something that keeps you constantly working Harder for the Money?  

Do you see reflections of money in puddles and wish you hadn’t bought that new car last year?  Do you see light at the end of the tunnel or the further you go; it seems like the longer the tunnel gets?

Consider these mindsets that show a healthy attitude towards money affairs.

  • You are in control of your money instead of it controlling you. 
  • Your money is working for you instead of you working for it.
  • Your money is just not for needs but it also enriches life in constructive ways.
  • Money is not the end goal but a tool to help you achieve your end goals.
  • Sometimes you freely spend money without feeling guilty afterward.
  • You have concluded the money or more money will not solve all your problems.
  • You stick and adhere to your values about money.
  • You know how you utilize to use money and what it represents to you.

Based on the 8 mindsets have you achieved peace with your money?  I am a Financial Coach, and I can help you.  Contact me for assistance.

5 Steps to a Better Spending Plan

Before you receive any money from a paycheck or any other income for the pay period, you want to sit down and “plan to spend” your money.  On purpose, you want to plan out where all your paycheck will be spent.  Often, we do not plan to spend our money and we end up letting others spend our money for us as we buy things that we did not plan to. 

Creating and working your spending plan is the way that you can manage your money better and stop living paycheck to paycheck. 

There are many benefits to creating a spending plan. 

Financial management success is one, however, for all the pitfalls and changes that come when creating and working with a spending plan, here are some steps to make it better.     

Step 1.   Call your budget a spending plan.

Instead of calling it a budget, call it a spending plan.  I do not know what it is but when most of us hear the word budget, we think of bad things, control, things we can’t do. 

So instead, call it a spending plan and think of it as a way to be a better steward of your money.  Just planning to spend your money, a spending plan, sounds like you are doing better.

Before you receive any money from a paycheck or any other income for the pay period, you want to sit down and “plan to spend” your money.  On purpose, you want to plan out where all your paycheck will be spent.  Often, we do not plan to spend our money and we end up letting others spend our money for us as we buy things that we did not plan to. 

Step 2. Track where your money is going.

You cannot effectively manage your money if you do not know where it is going.  Tracking your spending lets you know exactly where every dollar is going.  From the grocery store to the gas pump, tracking your spending will tell you where your money went.  Tracking allows you to have a more accurate spending plan.

 Sit down once a week or so with your receipts and write down where, how much, and what the money was spent for. 

Two things will happen.  First, you will see patterns in your spending that you did not notice before.  Second, you will see patterns in your spending that you will want to change, and that is the key to managing money better, changing behavior.

Step 3. Cut your expenses.

Once you track your expenses for a while, you will have a much better understanding of how, where, and what you are spending your money on.  You are not ready and able to cut unnecessary expenses. 

Go into deal mode and use coupons to save money.  Make a list for all shopping trips and never, never, never go shopping hungry.  Business is very adept at getting you to spend your money, therefore, maybe you stay at home and read a book, exercise, or do some yard works to keep your mind elsewhere.  Even try car polling and taking your lunch to work.   

Take a good hard look at all your spending and see where you can cut.     

Set up some financial goals for yourself like an emergency fund or a Christmas savings account.  Find a way to keep your goals in front of you.  Tape them to your bathroom mirror.  Take them with you when you are out and about.  Refer to them often, they will help you stay on track and prevent impulse buying.      

Step 4. If need be, increase income.

If you have less money coming in than going out, and after cutting expenses, you still have month left after the money is gone, you may want to try and increase your income.  A second job to help pay off debt is not a bad thing in the short term. 

Be sure to have a plan or goal for the money that you make at a second job and stick to the plan. 

Maybe you start a small business doing something that you like to do or do well for extra income.  The possibilities are endless.    

Step 5. Use spending plan tools to help you manage money better.

So, you ask, “What are spending plan tools?”  A spending plan tool is something that helps manage the budget or spending plan. 

Probably one of the oldest and best tools is the envelope system. 

Basically, in the envelope system you develop a spending plan, cash your check and you distribute your paycheck funds into different envelopes with your spending categories labeled on envelopes.  When the envelope is empty – it’s empty and no more spending in that category.  There are other tools such as calendars and some people use spreadsheets to track their different spending categories. 

Whether you use all these steps or none of them, do something different to manage your finances.  Do not keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result.  How do you manage your spending plan or budget?  Comment below and subscribe to my blog to get weekly spending plan and financial management tips.   

Sticking to a Spending Plan

So, you’ve set a spending plan or budget for your family. You have created this thing to help you plan to spend your money, now what? You are excited and feeling good because you are being a good steward of what GOD has given you.
At the same time, apprehensive because this spending plan/budget thing has never worked for me before. It’s just hard to follow.

So, you’ve set a spending plan or budget for your family.  You have created this thing to help you plan to spend your money, now what?  You are excited and feeling good because you are being a good steward of what GOD has given you. 

At the same time, apprehensive because this spending plan/budget thing has never worked for me before.  It’s just hard to follow.    

So, how do you stick to that spending plan that you meticulously crafted and are so proud of?  After all, for most of us, sticking to a spending plan can be the scariest part of managing money better.   

Sticking To a Spending Plan is a Mind Set

Creating and working with a spending plan is not a one-time and done thing its an ongoing process.  You have to work your money over and over again.  At regular intervals sit down with your spending plan and see where you are and where you need to make changes

 What adjustments do you need to make?  Are you sticking to your spending plan?  Do you need to cut here or cut there?      

Developing the right mindset for building wealth requires practice, as well as tenacity. Managing money well stems from a well-developed set of mental processes and you get a well-developed mental process with consistency.   

Here are a few ideas to help you stay on course.

First, refer to the receipts and records of your spending that you are now keeping.  Compare them to your budget or spending plan.  Do this weekly or even daily, to start with.  I suggest that you set distinct times to work your budget and money. 

Friday evenings, Saturday mornings, or Sunday afternoon, after church are good times (If you have young kids though, they probably wake you up on Saturdays). 

If you are within your budget, you are doing well and do not change a thing.  If you are not within your budget, make the needed corrections and keep monitoring you’re spending.  Keep a check on your spending and your financial situation at the top of your mind.  This can help to curb your desire to spend, spend, spend, and ensures you know how much you actually have to spend.   


Make it a Family Affair

Include the whole family in the budget.  Teach them that the family pack saves money or that saving a dollar this week means having extra money for fun stuff later. Have children go shopping with you and point out what saves you money.  Try putting savings towards something the whole family can enjoy, such as a fun weekend out of town.  Including the whole family in the budget will make it easier to stay on budget and teach good financial habits for the future as well.

Remember your Financial Goals

Remind yourself frequently of your financial goals.  Paying off a big debt, retiring early, or the emergency fund, are financial goals that can keep you on budget.  Keep your goals in front of you.  Post them on your mirror in the bathroom, your car dashboard, and your purse or wallet.  Pull them out and look at them when you are feeling weak. 

Stick to your Lists

Make a list before you go shopping and stick to the list.  Take the list with you and only buy what is on the list! 

It does not matter if it is Wal Mart or Home Depot…stay on the list! 

Additionally, do not go shopping hungry.  When shopping online look for coupons and comparison shop for the best deals.  Talk yourself out of purchases and do not spend money you do not have.  Give yourself some time to consider and rationalize before buying, and if you decide later that you need it, go get it.

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­Be Flexible 

Remember that life is unpredictable, and things happen that are out of our control. When­, you make a budget, try to allow some extra money for variable expenses.  Be gentle with yourself if you go over your budget, it can be hard to get back on track ­if you let yourself get too frustrated over a mistake or two.

­Follow­ing these tips can help you stick to your budget, and you can feel good about keeping your finances under control.  Make sure you update your budget regularly and prioritize your spending and know what is important enough to be worth your hard-earned money.

What are some tips that you use to stick to your spending plan?  Share your thoughts and subscribe to my blog.  I would love to hear from you.